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A Resilient Condolence: Thoughts and Prayers, Complicity
Bouncing forward by saying RIP to complicity. With thoughts and prayers, a resilient condolence to what was once a functional coping mechanism.
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A Resilient Predictability: Behavioral Patterns
It’s a resilient predictability: we all go through life exhibiting behavioral patterns, but are you owning them, or are they owning you?
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The Basis of Resilience: Predictable Irrationalities
We all have work to do on our predictable irrationalities. Scientists know that we are all Predictably Irrational, as Dan Ariely calls it. We are all. So are you, because they also have evidence to show that we see it in others but declare ourselves immune.
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A Resilient Resolution: Setting Intentions in Stone
For resolutions that stick, setting intentions in stone starts by saying, “My resolutions are my bond, my word, and my word matters while I always reserve the right to change my mind.” It’s owning the control you have, self-directing your life.
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A Resilient Liberty: Outgrowing Obligation
Every day since outgrowing obligation, I have the newfound liberty to decide for myself how to spend my time. It’s a joy better than I imagined, and a responsibility larger than I’d anticipated.
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The Resilient Introduction: Nailing First Impressions
First impressions matter. Are you making the right one, or destined to fail before you leave the house? Here’s how I fixed mine after years of failure.